Spice of Sobriety was never in my personal plan, 
but it was always in God's.
I fought embracing my sensuality in sobriety
for years, weighed down by shame from childhood. 
I was a little girl who learned to
self-soothe in silence.
Alcohol found me in 7th grade and became
my escape for 22 years.. When I got sober at
34, I was married, yet I had never experienced
sober sex. Those early years of recovery were
brutal, our intimacy suffered, 
our communication was nonexistent. 

But in 2020, everything changed. 
I took a deep breath, leaned into healing,
 and started embracing both my femininity and
my husband’s love. That same year, 
I self-published Stroke of Sobriety, a book that
 defied the odds and became a bestseller.
 Fast forward to 41, with a newfound confidence, 
a killer pair of birthday boobs, and the courage
 to show up fully online, I stepped into a
new chapter. Livestreaming, sensual confidence,
 marriage restoration, and total transparency
about what it means to thrive in recovery

You don't have to be a workaholic
to be successful. Really.


You can be sober, faithful, and still turn yourself, and your partner on.

Welcome to:
Spice of Sobriety where healing speaks, shame ends, and truth tastes like fire. It’s not just for women This space is for anyone: men, women, married, single, curious or committed, who wants to explore sensuality, spirituality, and sobriety in full COLOR

Here, you’ll uncover
what it truly means
 to feel fully alive
in your body, wildly
magnetic in your energy,
and deeply rooted in your truth.
This is where you learn to access your purpose, not the one handed
 to you by your parents
 or shaped by expectation,
but the one
that was always yours.